Choosing glasses should be fun, right? It should be about finding frames that make you feel confident and comfortable. But lately, I've noticed something a little odd: why are glasses even separated by gender? It seemed unnecessary and honestly, a bit frustrating during my own search for the perfect pair.
I remember one time I was browsing an eye center, and someone actually pointed out that I was in the "men's" section. It struck me as so strange. Seriously? It's a piece of plastic! Does it really matter which section it comes from? It felt like such an outdated way of thinking about something as personal as eyewear. This experience led me to really question the whole idea of gendered glasses.
Another time, I was helping a friend pick out glasses and they were struggling to find a style they liked. They mentioned how frustrating it was that “masculine” styles often didn’t fit because they have a smaller face. It made me realize the sizing issue is a real problem. It's not about gender, it's about finding glasses that actually fit well and suit your face shape.
I get why some people might think there's a reason behind the "gendered" labeling. I've heard that "masculine" faces tend to be longer and more angular, so "men's glasses" are designed to complement those shapes with straighter lines. But honestly, that's such a generalization. Everyone's face is different, and the best glasses are the ones that fit your unique features.
So, what did I do about it? I started ignoring the "men's" and "women's" labels altogether. I just looked for frames that I liked and that fit my face. I found that this approach opened up a whole new world of options. I focused on the shape, size, and color, rather than what some label told me I should be wearing.
One thing that really helped was finding brands that offered smaller sizes in their "men's" sections. I remember hearing good things about Warby Parker and their try-at-home program. This allows you to test out different frames without leaving your house. This can be a great way to find glasses that fit if you have a smaller face and are looking for traditionally "masculine" styles.
Recently, I was looking for new reading glasses and stumbled upon some from Mozaer. I found these New Trendy High-definition Presbyopia Glasses Fashionable Anti Blue Light Reading Glasses for Women Elderly Far Sighted Eyewear 0-Black and thought they were great.
I like that they don’t scream "old lady reading glasses" but still provide the clarity I need. The anti-blue light feature is a bonus, especially since I spend so much time in front of a screen. I was pleasantly surprised by the quality and style – definitely not what I expected from reading glasses. They're comfortable and stylish, and I've gotten a lot of compliments on them. I wouldn't have found them if I had stuck to the "men's" section!
Here are some tips I've learned along the way:
Here's a quick rundown of the benefits I've experienced since ignoring those pesky gender labels: